
1:1 Coaching for men who are stuck
Go from out-of-control compulsive behaviours and persistent relapsing – to being stronger, happier and healthier.
In this video:
→ who Hamish is
→ why you're here
→ 3 things keeping you stuck
→ the DREAM method ™
→ Hamish's approach
→ hear from a previous client
Any of this sound familiar?
- Spiralling into debt
- Hurting loved ones
- Relationships breaking down (partners + family + friends)
- Tried to make changes but keep ending up back in the same place
- Work is affected (underperformance + losing or switching jobs regularly)
Imagine if you could:
- rewire your mind
- keep promises to yourself
- feel at peace with sobriety
- build healthy habits for life
- improve your relationships
- make your dreams a reality
"The secret of change is to focus all your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new"
Socrates
DREAM method ™
If there's one thing I've learned over the past few years, it is exactly that.
Addiction can not only wreak havoc in every area of life – health, relationships, finances, career. It can cause you to forget all about the dreams you once had. Dreams that are actually within your reach.
That's why I developed my DREAM method ™ – a coaching framework with five pillars to help you shift to a healthier lifestyle:
➟ Discovery: reconnect with your life vision
➟ Reflection: on your barriers to reaching it
➟ Exploration: values + triggers + options
➟ Action: create the conditions for change
➟ Maintenance: relapse prevention plan

Why work with Hamish?
You may have already attempted to make changes, but find that you're repeating behaviours that you want to stop.
Coaching sessions are a space to ignite positive change in your life. They're also about accountability – ensuring that you stay on track in working towards where you want to be.
I support you to build healthier habits, raise your self-awareness, cultivate self-love and move towards living your life with more purpose.
All of these are the ingredients for lasting change.
With coaching, I help you to:
➟ build healthier habits
➟ shift mindset to WANT to be sober
➟ do in 4 months what took me 4 years

Get Unstuck is a 12-session coaching programme, designed to get you to a place where you are stronger, happier and healthier.
It's about laying the foundations and creating the conditions for lasting change.
If you're not ready for the full programme, I also offer a shorter package of 8 sessions.
What you get:
✅ 60-minute private sessions (online)
✅ Personalised support between sessions (via WhatsApp)
✅ Tools, exercises and practices tailored to you
✅ Guided meditations to develop focus, awareness and emotional stability
✅ A clear roadmap – with accountability, not pressure
2 ways to work together
Mini programme (8 sessions)
Get on track • 2–4 months
Full programme (12 sessions)
Sustainable change • 3–6 months
Once I've learned a bit more about where you're at, we agree on the route — and session frequency (weekly or fortnightly) — that fits best for you.
Henry – client
"I was drinking enough alcohol to kill a small animal. I've done therapy. I've done counselling. Those are great. But I needed help living my life in a healthy way.
Hamish knew what I was thinking. He knew what I was going through. I haven't touched a drop of alcohol in 6 months now"
[Henry is now 18 months sober]