1:1 Coaching for men who are stuck

Go from out-of-control compulsive behaviours and persistent relapsing – to being stronger, happier and healthier.

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In this video:

 who Hamish is

→ why you're here

→ 3 things keeping you stuck

→ the DREAM method ™

→ Hamish's approach

→ hear from a previous client

Work with Hamish

Any of this sound familiar?

  • Spiralling into debt
  • Hurting loved ones
  • Relationships breaking down (partners + family + friends)
  • Tried to make changes but keep ending up back in the same place
  • Work is affected (underperformance + losing or switching jobs regularly)

Imagine if you could:

  • rewire your mind
  • keep promises to yourself
  • feel at peace with sobriety
  • build healthy habits for life
  • improve your relationships
  • make your dreams a reality

"The secret of change is to focus all your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new"

Socrates

DREAM method ™

If there's one thing I've learned over the past few years, it is exactly that.

Addiction can not only wreak havoc in every area of life – health, relationships, finances, career. It can cause you to forget all about the dreams you once had. Dreams that are actually within your reach.

That's why I developed my DREAM method ™ – a coaching framework with five pillars to help you shift to a healthier lifestyle:

➟ Discovery: reconnect with your life vision

➟ Reflection: on your barriers to reaching it

➟ Exploration: values + triggers + options

➟ Action: create the conditions for change

➟ Maintenance: relapse prevention plan

Why work with Hamish?

You may have already attempted to make changes, but find that you're repeating behaviours that you want to stop.

Coaching sessions are a space to ignite positive change in your life. They're also about accountability – ensuring that you stay on track in working towards where you want to be.

I support you to build healthier habits, raise your self-awareness, cultivate self-love and move towards living your life with more purpose.

All of these are the ingredients for lasting change. 

With coaching, I help you to:

➟ build healthier habits
➟ shift mindset to WANT to be sober
➟ do in 4 months what took me 4 years

Get Unstuck is a 12-session coaching programme, designed to get you to a place where you are stronger, happier and healthier.

It's about laying the foundations and creating the conditions for lasting change.

If you're not ready for the full programme, I also offer a shorter package of 8 sessions.

What you get:

✅ 60-minute private sessions (online)

✅ Personalised support between sessions (via WhatsApp)

✅ Tools, exercises and practices tailored to you

✅ Guided meditations to develop focus, awareness and emotional stability

✅ A clear roadmap – with accountability, not pressure

2 ways to work together

Mini programme (8 sessions)

Get on track • 2–4 months

Full programme (12 sessions)

Sustainable change • 3–6 months 

Once I've learned a bit more about where you're at, we agree on the route — and session frequency (weekly or fortnightly) — that fits best for you.
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Henry – client

"I was drinking enough alcohol to kill a small animal. I've done therapy. I've done counselling. Those are great. But I needed help living my life in a healthy way.

Hamish knew what I was thinking. He knew what I was going through. I haven't touched a drop of alcohol in 6 months now"

[Henry is now 18 months sober]

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